बस तेरे बदलने की कसर रह गई थी,
बाकी तो ज़िंदगी ने सता ही रखा था।
उम्मीद नहीं थी कि तू भी दुख देगा,
... क्योंकि तुझे तो हर दुख बता रखा था।
चारु
If accounted for, we speak a million words every day, but still claim to be misunderstood; shruddered for being unexpressive.. If words could say it all, what would WE do??
बस तेरे बदलने की कसर रह गई थी,
बाकी तो ज़िंदगी ने सता ही रखा था।
उम्मीद नहीं थी कि तू भी दुख देगा,
... क्योंकि तुझे तो हर दुख बता रखा था।
चारु
Bengal has had its share of atrocities starting with the Communist party (CPI-M) rule from June 1977. The otherwise rich Bengal was drowned in the hands of the Communist Ideology of the Left. Industries relocated, businesses were muffled and wealth became scarce. Bengal was losing its glamour – slowly but surely. For 34 long years of suffering, a young, dynamic lady – metaphoric to be Maa Durga – came to Bengal’s rescue.
She battled relentlessly against the Left Mafia and carved a niche in the hearts of the million Bengalis. Farmers who lost their lands in to the communists now saw hope in her. Come May 2011, West Bengal alighted the trauma. She had fought. She had won. Bengal was happy and hopeful.
The All India Trinamool Congress (AITMC) had promised populism, secularism and regionalism to the innocent Bengalis who trusted her with their love, support and “Land” – their sole livelihood. 15 years went by.
What Bengal saw in these fifteen years was none less than a sense of cultural displacement. She was a Bengali but favoured “other communities” a bit too far. While the Communist Party made the state poorer, she bought Bengal to its knees.
She started off as a hope and ended up being a tyrant, making Bengal an open playground for her political vendetta. From blocking National Welfare Schemes to scams, from Illegal Immigrant filtration to gut wrenching crimes against women – she throttled the trust in every which way.
For the last fifteen years, the state has had enough – its wealth looted, its culture disgraced, its women disrobed. What started as a change promised, soon changed hands with greed.
The results of 2026 Bengal
Assembly elections has yet again promised respite to the Bengal residents,
especially its women. A fresh recourse is seen coming its way with an
unconditional promise to undo the hurt, to protect its women and return the
looted glory.
As a resident of Bengal for over
40 decades who has witnessed the trailing regime of the Left and tyranny of the so
called ideologist, all I can hope is for this promise to be their last!
Disclaimer - This article is not about commending or denouncing any political party or ideology. It is the observational summary of a politically awakened Bengali – albeit not born a Bengali.
जीवन-मरण से परे नारायण
कारागार में जन्मे थे
न योजना केवल लीला थी
वे नव-निर्माण के
संकल्प में दर्शे थे ।
निज
जीविका-क्रम से जता दिया
ना प्रेम का मतलब पाना
है —
वैराग्य ही चित्त का
शिखर स्वरूप है
यही मुक्ति-पथ की आराधना
है।
मथुरा,
द्वारका या कुरुक्षेत्र —
योध्या वहीं जिसने मन को सशक्त
किया
दिया गीता-ज्ञान विश्व को समझाने
संत वही जिसने भाव-शून्य अपना लिया।
कभी
बाँसुरी, कभी सुदर्शन —
कभी मंद-मंद मुस्कुराए थे
मौन में उनके सभी उत्तर थे
जो शब्द न कभी कह पाए थे।
जिसने मन में कृष्ण रमाया
उनका सुझाया मार्ग लिया —
जपा राम नाम या शिव-शक्ति
का
मोक्ष-पथ को भाँप
लिया।
चारु – सर्वदा विष्णोर्भक्ता
What are we, if not a dream,
So,
let me find you again
a little sooner this time
when our hearts are young
our souls unscarred-
in a realm where we are not pulled apart
Beyond right and wrong
meet me in a world afar
for in every life, every turn
I’ll search for you – yet again!
Charu
They went for a vacation and were gunned down, they went to celebrate IPL win and were crushed under feet, they boarded a flight and could not make to their homes.. Such is the fragility of life..!
Yes, we all have our struggles, our failures to fight, questions to avoid but kab tak..?
Lets take ownership of our lives, put up a fight and solve the scariest of puzzles..
Above all lets open the doors of our hearts and let love run down our veins. The world needs more of smiles than these cries..
Lets do something stupid today ..something we loved doing as a child but gave it away to adult ..anything that brings about the silliest grin..
Life is short my friend..
Today is perhaps the best day to loose guard and be a child. AGAIN!
What has this world become.
Born roughly four decades ago, I remember things
were much simpler back then, not that we were against the test of time, but definitely
more forbearing.
Times were easier, technology was scarce but contentment
was in abundance.
Born in a joint family, raised among seven
other kids in limited resources, what we’ve gathered from our experiences is
enough to fuel generations. But the question is what world are we giving to our
children? Is it the world enough?
Where is tolerance? There is Ego. Where is joy?
There is disgruntlement. Where is acceptance? People are hypercritical. Where
is love? Oh! let’s not even go there!
From climate change to scams, from AI to Donald
Trump, from Russia to Hamas, we were striding in reasonably but now it’s
getting intense.
Being an Indian, we automatically have feelings
for Pakistan (pun intended!) but it’s overwhelming now as I see the fourth or
maybe the fifth Indo-Pak tiff (it’s not a full-fledged war yet!)
What bothers me more is the kind of people we
have around us, who don’t comprehend the enormity of the situation and
irrespective of their limited geo political understanding, are spreading fake
news like wildfire, stimulating misinformation and deepening public confusion
along both sides of the border.
The social media is flooded with memes, content
creators are tirelessly rolling in, I see some are using the tragedy to fill in
the social media profiles!
I hope Elon Musk’s dream of colonizing Mars singles
them out!
Note: This is not a piece of art, it’s
just a rant!
Experience is simply the name we give to our mistakes.
The
internet is flooded with quotations on mistakes and its aftermath.
However my
favorite is “It’s not how you make mistakes, but how we correct them that defines
us”
Not that we
don’t know that we all make mistakes, it just takes enough mettle to admit
doing it, and especially when it could cause a trade-off!
With over
10 years of corporate experience I admit making several mistakes, most of which
were totally avoidable, some which could cost me the project and at times trust
was at stake.
The best
way to navigate from the slug is Prompt Resolution and Effective Communication.
Though it
is as simple as it sounds, its execution is the key. No leadership lessons or
text book solutions can bail you out if you get stuck.
Chin up, Own Up and do what IS to be done. The only approach to avoid is denial!
The sea as I see is in a hurry to be,
just like me thinking, brooding, drooling,
the never ending expanse of thoughts crashing at the shores....
Leaving behind an echo of broken waves, broken dreams,
and broken me!
Wait a min guys, it never means its girly to be moody-though we do have the hear warming share of it..:-)
Charu Agarwal
Zoom goes in another commercial. Aren’t these commercials far much able than such singing so-called-reality-shows, which have been revolving around the same concept ever since Sonu Nigam got his first ever break in Sa Re Ga Ma as a host??
The model has invariably given us talent that we relish till date. Sanu Nigam, Shaan, Sunidhi Chouhan, Shekhar, Kunal Ganjawala to name a few. The concept has reached its saturation after being exploited, and continuing to be, by all the channels one can fathom. When the desh ki janta was already getting acidic by over dose, the voting calls keep coming in. This time it was churning the rotten candidates that the sauntering janta had already decided to do without. The long forgotten candidates were given a chance to relive the drama, hurling the janta towards the pain of voting. What the heck!! If this was not all, the spat between the judges is artificially created and organized to a hype and is then sold for better TRP. They never seem to get enough. To make it worse, it’s now been coupled with dancing, hosted by our very own, and talented (read not) Ravi Anand! Does this man qualify at all to represent and host a show!! Of course he does. Any man in the industry who runs out of work does. And that’s the guru mantra to keep the cash resisters ringing. Applies to the channels, to the singers (if they at all can) and certainly the hosts and the hostess!!
Soon after the series gets wound up, lost are the faces in the 5 minutes fame which were once cheered for so vehemently, some of which certainly deserve. Remember Rooprekha, Qazi, Sandeep, to name some cheered and long forgotten winners!
But, picture abhi baaki hai mere dost! Don’t forget to switch on your television set- never mind the channel as all must be airing the same conceptual singing drama- at 10 pm. Who knows you find a familiar face that you once vouched for. Hang on, even if you have forgotton their names in the long list of “singers”, the reminders would be to shortly provided..” Please mujhe vote karma na bhoolen, mere voting information hain…..”
Dekha, ab yaad aaya na!
PS: Readers comments and opinions are invited!
Forever Your's
Charu
“Me too...” He drew a deep breath and turned around, this time to face her.§ Study the company's website thoroughly.
§ Study the LinkedIn profile of the company and the Manager (who you are scheduled with)
§ Visit the Job portals searching for similar roles to get a whiff of the job and consequently the expectations from you.
§ Keep a check on what the employer expects from you and make a list of the probable questions .(The questions asked will be in accordance with the nature of the company and more importantly in relation to the nature of the job you are applying for)
§ Try and keep the answer of these questions in writing and be prepared with slight variations. If you have any doubts, consult with an experienced person. Search the net
§ Practice the answers before a mirror . It really does wonders in improving the self confidence level.
Now that we know how we are to face the interviewer, lets ponder on to his favourite questions..
· Tell us something about yourself. (Mention the educational qualifications, briefly giving the details of the institutes, academic credentials, and achievements in the previous positions held.)
· What is your family background? (Mention your fathers occupation and of other family members who are working. Mention very briefly about your siblings and elaborate only when asked to. One must answer this particular question very confidently)
· Why did you not join your father’s business? (A sure question if you mention your father as a businessman. I assume you must be having a valid reason already)
· How does your father inspire you?
· What are your strengths?
· What are your weaknesses?
· How will you explain the break in your career (if there is more than 6 months gap between two consecutive jobs?)
· Why do you change your job so frequently? (if there is less than 1 yr stint in any company)
· Why did you leave your previous job? (never speak ill of any of your past employers)
· How has the working experience that you have added to your personality?
· How will you deal with situations if your weaknesses affect your deliverables/performance?
· What are your personal goals?
· How do you expect your family to support you in your career?
· Do you mind working overtime?
· Are you open to relocation?
· How comfortable will you with shifting departments within our organization?
· How will you react to the responsibilities added to your job profile from time to time?
· What is the most important thing that has attracted you to this particular job?
· What is more important to you - Position or Pay? (Both are important. But the extent of importance grossly depends from case to case)
· If you have offers from two companies, one offers you a higher pay and the other a good position. Which one will you select? Why?
· How would you like to be managed? (By anyone who would understand why I made a mistake and makes sure that I learn from it. By someone whom I can set as my ideal and learn things from.)
· What will be your ideal job?
· What motivates you the most?
· How do you manage pressure situations?
· Why do you think we should hire you for this job?
· Tell us an annoying/ embarrassing/ humorous incident.
· How do you think your qualification/experience suits/suffices the requirement for this job?
· Where do you see yourself after 5 yrs from now?
§ Make sure to clarify the question, its meaning, if you don’t understand, rather than giving an incorrect answer Read the set of questions twice and be prepared to be greeted by "him" with a warm smile.. Not only he thinks you are well prepared, he understands you are an asset to his organization.
Happy Working!
Charu Agarwal
There is a famous paradox that CEAT is using currently as its marketing instrument- The only thing permanent is CHANGE..
Samilar is the situation where I am currently! The frame for my situation is "The only certainity here is uncertainity".
Though there is the difference of just one prefix, the impact is toxicating... :(
PS: Readers comments and opinions are invited!
The journey seemed difficult, but he had to start anyway. Vicious, so to say, but the hostile road lay besieged to its only occupant. Although he came across as a frail persona, his aura deprecated all incoherence.
He kept walking with heavy steps, reposing his presence on the unmade road, mentally maintained repository of all details he set his eyes on. It was almost dusk when he noticed a 14-year old boy trying to escape the inced crowd. He approached the boy when he managed to dodge his chasers And learnt that he was a petty thief who has been exempted. The old man placed his hands on his fore-head and tried to deter him from stealing in the future. The boy gawked at him in mistrust and fled without uttering a single word.
The old man made a mental note of it….
He resumed his purpose and kept walking, until he came across a man of uncouth disposition. He flirted with dirty streets and reveled his inane existence. The old man noticed his lower limbs unfurled in a queering fashion, only to further deprecate his appearance. On a small conversation with this man of sporadic mannerisms, he understood that he had lost his leg to a gory accident. The man lamented and wept with grief but never tried to combat his unruly fate. Despite the ineffable efforts old man, failed to make him realize the importance of life, so he decided to wait and watch what fate had in store for him! He rose to his feet and this time it was certain to see him again, and he knew it would be soon…
He resumed his purpose. Days passed by….
As he walked past the desolated street, he saw an old man from distance. His sprawling limbs were confined to the ambit of his tattered mattress. He sat there with mouth slightly ajar, as though from eternity, under the vigilant sun who did not miss any opportunity to make brute foray at his sagging skin and sans eyes. The beggar forced his eyes open and tried to recognize the much familiar face which bore such surreptitious expressions that sufficed fairly to perplex him. All that he could manage was to strain his wits to fathom the cryptic smile that played back and forth him.
Finally the old man spoke:
“ Why are you having troubles recognizing me? You have seen me before. I met you when you were a 14 year old kid trying to escape the people who caught you stealing. I tried to make you understand the vices of your trade but u never listened to me and continued with it until you me t with a gruesome accident which permanently disabled you from walking, let alone running. That was the first lesson for you. I had to come to see you again when you were wasting your life cribbing over what you lost. You again ignored what I said and here I am, for the last time to see you living how you chose to. You would have saved your legs and the Sun had you conceded in me then.. True, Man is what he chooses to be”
The words struck the beggar in the heart and he wept.. Finally when he opened his eyes the old man was gone…Time again was gone..!!!!
PS: Readers comments and opinions are invited!
PS: Readers comments and opinions are invited!
PS: Readers comments and opinions are invited!
ok in the first places carries an utterly wrong title and confuses the readers who wish to win hearts and gets disappointed to finds nothing to do with becoming a better person. This book, to brief up is a guide on effective utilization of time that then converts you to a better “self manned” individual. No surprises folks. This time Sharmaji have been kind enough to dole out some sensible advices and to my pleasure have shared some names of nice books (though he never mentioned the authors) in his 101 tips.The story of two friends cum brothers who fight for power. The stale concept as seen in several hindi movied including Sarkaar. The lust for power however, is shown very briefly yest with novelty. Sanjay and Suneil did wonders!
Sex on the Beach (7.5/10)
Cast: Dino Morea and Tareena Patel
Well..well...well. It is funny and interesting too.
ony Ericsson, Motorola etc). While Samsung boasts of its improved and competitive picture quality, it falters badly with the Video Recording that, sigh, is limited to 2 minutes only (after which it ends automatically) 

Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.
The hardest thing in the world to understand is the income tax.
The only real valuable thing is intuition.
A person starts to live when he can live outside himself.
Weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character.
Sometimes one pays most for the things one gets for nothing.
Science without religion is lame. Religion without science is blind.
Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.
Great spirits have often encountered violent opposition from weak minds.
Common sense is the collection of prejudices acquired by age eighteen.
Science is a wonderful thing if one does not have to earn one's living at it.
The secret to creativity is knowing how to hide your sources.
The only thing that interferes with my learning is my education.
The whole of science is nothing more than a refinement of everyday thinking.
We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.
Education is what remains after one has forgotten everything he learned in school.
Talk of the gadgets now, I have some that I admit, though I dont need I liked them enough to make them adorn my home page! I am talking of the Decision maker. To tell you the truth, I am still not certain what and how it decides. :-) Besides, the two blogs that I constantly get to have my eyes on finds place here. I never miss on the add-ons with this!
Neways, there are some real sensible hues also. The BSE index, The Note Pad ( I called it Charu) and the To-do list are the must for my profession. I simply cant do without being reminded several times of the day and time, so there is a clock to suit my taste and need. Sudoko is anothr fascination with me, so have that at the centre to have it waiing for me whenever I want to unwind. The option of adjusting its level (Very easy, easy, medium etc) makes it my darling. With my stress level, matches the game level!
I am constatly in touch with my "stuffs" and loving it a lot!
Where looks werent enough, the dash of colours make it say all. The phone is available in black, white and orange and three different snap-on accessories. The set comes with an image stabilized camera, dictionary functions, and music player, but the most important feature according to Hitachi is the ability to change the look of the phone itself! 
Another stunning masterpiece from Samsung. But when did Sam sing?? Oops jokes apart, this deadly Tri-Band GSM (900 / 1800 / 1900MHz) EDGE phone comes with GPRS and multimedia capablities. It features a new innovative slider design and is powered by a 2 MegaPixel camera with a 262K Color TFT display. The storage capacity is expandable though through microp SD slot that has been provided. In addition the phone also features a music player that supports MP3 / AAC / ACC+ / AAC+(e) / WM playback. On the connectivity side it has bluetooth and USB. In addition it also includes a Digital Power Amp and also feature touch keys as well.
8. KDDI Talby by Marc Newson.
The Talby is a quite old phone. It was first shown as a product concept back in 2003 and garnered a lot of attention during a couple of years. The Tably is available in three colors, hornet green, orange orange and hole black. The Talby is only available in Japan. While featured with 1.3 megapixel camera, there is not much to boast about in the zone other than the looks.
7. O2 Ice
Now here is a man! The O2 Ice was actually the phone that was the inspiration to this article. It’s a small stylish 3G phone that has the usual built-in MP3 player, 1.3 megapixel camera, with bluetooth. Though the camera stands as a demotivation for the 2 and 3 megapixel crew, the looks are enough to entice the girls. Men in palms..not a bad idea!!
6. Samsung SGH-E870
The Samsung SGH-E870 is a nice looking clamshell phone coming in three different colors Chic White, Valentine Pink and Chilli blue. It’s primarily aimed towards girly-girls. It is a triband clamshell GSM phone that has GPRS, Bluetooth, a speakerphone, a 1.3 megapixel camera, supports Java applications, weighs just 85 grams, and it has a crisp TFTLCD on the inside and a color OLED display on the outside. Phew. Thats pretty much! The SGH-E870 comes with a nice 80mb of internal memory which can be expanded via a Transflash/micro SD slot.
5. KDDI Neon by Naoto Fukasawa
The Neon is one of the latest phones coming out from the AU Design project at KDDI. It’s available in three colors, light blue, pink and black. It has a built-in 1.3 megapixel camera, miniSD slot, music player, FM tuner and a 320×240 screen. Not much to boast about. Its just an eye candy to think of.
4. Black Diamond
Black Diamond is a luxury phone that isn’t out on the market yet. It’s supposed to be launched early 2007 from a company called VIPN. On their site they promote a limited edition of the phone made out of titanium and with real diamonds. Blessed with the fancy overtone, the phone comes with 1.3 megapixel.
3. Helio Kickflip
The Helio Kickflip is small and stylish, but it’s still loaded with a 2 megapixel camera, 2.2″ screen (320×240) and 3GB memory capabilities. Better off in style nad features than most mentioned. It sure calls for attention!
2. LG KG-800 Chocolate.
A pure beauty and a pleasure to own. Commonly available in the city (cities) its a little difficult to maintain. Priced towards common peoples reach, it leaves finger impressions when (ever) touched. 1.3 megapixel camera, slider case and expandable memory forms the key feature to the unit!
1. KDDI Penck by Makoto Saito
A hunk to call it so. The PENCK phone designed by Makoto Saito is one and a half years old, but it’s still the most beautful phone ever made. The PENCK is available in three colors, metal, milk (white), and bitter (black). Too bad it’s only available in Japan. :-(